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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2018 16:49:57 GMT -5
Ive been wondering how many of us devs are currently in a relationship with a pwd ?
For the ones who arent, is it something you would like to happen?
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Post by lucretia on Oct 1, 2018 19:00:50 GMT -5
No? Technically yes, but no.
Nope. Never again.
I'm perfectly happy living out the ever shrinking part of my dev life here.
ETA: I'm not thinking about dating at all, but I wouldn't take dating an AB guy off the table. I've had such a rough time I probably won't date again, but if I did it would probably be with AB guys.
My younger dev self is screaming "Noooooooo!!!!!!"
😂😂😂😂😂
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Post by didi on Oct 1, 2018 19:05:52 GMT -5
Single.
I am at a point in my life where I would actually like to date an AB guy. But I just can't seem to connect with / feel attracted to AB men... I feel like being a dev is kind of a curse sometimes. My dating pool is sooooooo freaking limited...
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Post by pam on Oct 1, 2018 19:27:52 GMT -5
I've been married to an AB man for a long time, so no. But if I could split myself in 2 and become 2 people, I would want to be in a relationship with a PWD. I would want to experience that at least once in my life.
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Post by Manda2212 on Oct 1, 2018 20:53:19 GMT -5
I've been married to an AB man for a long time, so no. But if I could split myself in 2 and become 2 people, I would want to be in a relationship with a PWD. I would want to experience that at least once in my life. Same. |
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Post by didi on Oct 1, 2018 21:33:02 GMT -5
And I want to experience a relationship and a sex life with an AB. Ah, it's always the fear of what we might be missing out on.
Sex life with a PWD is mostly awesome (especially because you're so extremely sexually attracted to them) but I can't help feeling that I want to experience the AB / AB dynamic at least once in my life.
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Post by blueskye101 on Oct 1, 2018 22:50:08 GMT -5
Single. Was married 32 years, then hubby told me he was gay and moved away with a young man my son's age. Was many years getting over that whole drama for myself and my kids. Would love to have a relationship 1x with a pwd but not sure I will ever live with or get married again.
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Post by vegmama on Oct 1, 2018 22:50:41 GMT -5
I’m engaged and my fiancé is a PWD. When I first joined here (4.5 yrs ago) I was married, my ex-husband is AB. After having multiple AB relationships, an AB marriage, and two PWD relationships: I can say that, for me, the relationship dynamics are pretty similar. There are up’s and down’s, struggles and growth in both. The sex, however, is drastically different. As in, I cringe to think about my pre-PWD sex life.  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2018 5:27:24 GMT -5
Thanks for all your responses, in answer to my own question...
I was married to an AB man, then divorced. Came out of a long (awful) relationship with another AB but unexpectedly met a pwd. I wasnt looking for another relationship and seriously doubted my ability to function in one ! But so far so good, he is a great man with the added bonus of pushing my dev buttons.
For probably the first time in my adult life im actually looking forward to a future.
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Post by laur on Oct 4, 2018 12:32:49 GMT -5
I’ve never dated a PWD. I think it was mostly bad timing. I met my current partner when I was 21, and at that point, I wasn’t at a place to pursue my dev fantasy IRL unless it had happened organically in person with someone. Considering the lack of PWD in my life back then, that never happened.
I do wish I had experienced that given that it’s so major in my fantasies and often suspect sex with a PWD who I find attractive would be a better sexual experience for me than I’ve had with AB guys. I’m happy in terms of relationship dynamics otherwise though and like my current life too.
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Oct 4, 2018 16:33:16 GMT -5
I just recently started dating an AB after being with a PWD for 3.5 years. I also think that the relationship dynamics are similar, the “life” aspect is SO much easier (I’m really enjoying this rn) and as for the sex... even our sex life as a dev and a PWD went south eventually and I am also really enjoying (lol, what an understatement) the sex with an AB now, it feels so new and is ofc totally different. Obviously I’m really wondering how this will develop LT, although not only bc of being a dev.
I have only so much experience with relationships - I’ve only had two LT ones before this new one (one with an AB, one with a PWD).
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Post by Betty on Oct 6, 2018 12:44:52 GMT -5
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Post by Betty on Oct 6, 2018 12:45:20 GMT -5
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Post by Betty on Oct 6, 2018 15:37:09 GMT -5
Thank you. Now I'm really Wicked Smaaht! Thank you Okay Smaahty, how about a thread to explain your new avatar you're so excited about!
And in what way are you wicked?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2018 15:43:51 GMT -5
Please forgive the following questions. I am originally from Boston so I'm Wicked Smaht 😎 And I have searched the site to see if I can answer the question..... The question. Definition of PWD, AB, and BIID. I've been in a Wheelchair since 2016. I found this site and found it informative, funny and enjoyable. I know I'm gonna go smack my head....but I had to ask. George. Hi, not sure if you realised but you are in the "devs only" section ? |
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