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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2006 16:04:08 GMT -5
Here is a tip. If you cant get them off without it....chances are there is no way in hell yer gonna get them off with it. You just have to convince them a couple times, a couple multiple times.....
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Post by Chan on Oct 3, 2006 16:19:49 GMT -5
It's the dude, not the cock, or lack of... That's completely 100% true. As I've stated many times on here before, I dont want a "functioning" guy. I'd prefer if the cock never had to even enter the sexual aspect of things. So the guys that parade theirs around and flaunt it make me do an immediate 180 in the other direction. |
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Post by E on Oct 3, 2006 16:53:13 GMT -5
It's the dude, not the cock, or lack of... That's completely 100% true. As I've stated many times on here before, I dont want a "functioning" guy. I'd prefer if the cock never had to even enter the sexual aspect of things. So the guys that parade theirs around and flaunt it make me do an immediate 180 in the other direction. But what if one guy does it and you turn 180, then another guy flaunts it? Do you turn back 180 toward the first guy? |
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Post by dwht100 on Oct 3, 2006 18:24:15 GMT -5
Well said mcc2121, Breaking down the stereotypes ,its a 24/7 job but some disabled guys just cant move on.
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Post by Pony on Oct 3, 2006 19:54:20 GMT -5
...as for the stereotypes, i face this on a daily basis at my work. I've broke down most people that i work closely with, but there are people, mostly girls, that are very guarded, or ignore me completely. I know there's something i do that makes them very uncomfortable. Most are bilingual young chicks that are daughters of parents outside this country, which made me think about what C4 said about how disabled are looked at in other 3rd World countries (Venezuela, MX, Peru, etc). sometimes they honestly look like they've never seen a dude in chair...
The stereotypes take many years to change, and in my view, we're moving very slow in the US...probably slower in other countries!!
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Post by Royter on Oct 4, 2006 6:45:49 GMT -5
so true about stereotypes even here in the liberal uk the people who tend to openly stare at me when im going about my business are usually from another country or culture only last week i was getting my chair out of my car and this women in full arabic or indian clothing stopped dead in her tracks and stood at the side of my car watching me as if i was a siddeshow i did say something to her but she still stood staring i just laughed at her in the end but i never get this type of attention from a so called westerner mm food for thought
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Post by michael on Oct 5, 2006 18:59:05 GMT -5
mc i dont understan your beef with me, why dont you mind your own business and i will do that... bcos i dont know u and u dont know me...so just enjoy the chat without getting into all thi s politics Patel, you want to know my "beef" with you? Each and every day I get up I do my damndest to dispell stereotypes associated with disabled guys. Whether it's because people treat us like we're naive, innocent or just plain dumb, I have to work extra hard (socially and in business) to overcome those misguided beliefs. And then you come along... Not only do you reinforce the stereotype that disabled men know little about talking to the opposite sex, you (a fellow disabled guy) attempted to emasculate your brothers with crap like "jealous you can't get a hard on". My problem is that knowing you're out there, I'm gonna have to work twice as hard to create a better vision of what disabled are truly like. Oh please! It's all about selling yourself, isn't it? Well, I never did and never will try to prove myself to anyone. If they don't like what I look like, they don't have to deal with me. It's their loss, because I am damn good at what I do, and I will succeed no matter what. Same goes for women. If she isn't intelligent enough to recognize my qualities, she is not good enough to be with me. In this life, you either get on the boat while it's leaving, or you have missed it. And what is the problem with a picture of a cock?? This site has some much smut that everything and anything has been said. True, I would not post the picture of my privates. Unfortunately, I am shy. However, I will never be ashamed of my own body. In fact, I am very proud of it. As of the the body, I am proud of my cock and very happy that it's working. When it will not work anymore, I'll still be proud! Get over yourself, people. Sound like a bunch of kindergarteners... "oh eww, he took his thingy out." By the way, if a female is bothered by seeing a penis of a healthy, human male, she has much bigger issues to deal with... lol. |
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Post by vivi on Oct 5, 2006 19:34:20 GMT -5
Here is a tip. If you cant get them off without it....chances are there is no way in hell yer gonna get them off with it. You just have to convince them a couple times, a couple multiple times..... Soooo true.... My god! What have I been missing *has to call laptop guy to hurry him*... In case you haven´t noticed Patel, the biggest sex organ is the brain... The anticipation and getting in the mood is a lot more exciting than actually doing it. And I have online and phone sex, and believe me, it beat the real sex I have been having. Soooo, the cock is really not that necessary. ;D It |
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Post by devogirl on Oct 5, 2006 20:28:43 GMT -5
By the way, if a female is bothered by seeing a penis of a healthy, human male, she has much bigger issues to deal with... lol. Duh, it's all about context. Seeing it in the bedroom with the right guy = sexy. Seeing a random stranger whip it out on the street = disturbing. As for posting cock pictures on a site like this, I don't think it's inappropriate per se, but I doubt it's going to get you anywhere. Are there any women here who upon seeing a picture of a cock feel moved to jump on it? Come on now, we know that's not how to pick up a chick. (or maybe we don't--there are hundreds of clueless cock posters on Craigslist, but I doubt it works for them there either) On the other hand, it might work if you're looking for anonymous gay sex. |
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Post by michael on Oct 6, 2006 12:50:11 GMT -5
Vivi, I agree that brain is the biggest sex organ....but you know wat...when u having phone sex ....or cyber sex.... you do mention cock a lot....examples..... " i will rub my fat cock on your tender lips" " let me shive my cock in your mouth....and loads like that.....so you are actually imagining about the cock ...even if its not there Exactly. Anyone that goes to this site and doesn't expect to see sexual content (text, images, video, etc.), is a bit confused. As far as whether it will work for him or not, it's not our place to tell him, nor did he ask for our opinion. Remember when you posted your picture with that cute intimate wear? I had some thoughts, too. However, I didn't express them, because you didn't ask for anyone's opinion.  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2006 14:34:14 GMT -5
Havent you seen the mantis pics? Right beside them it says explicit thats all they want. Just a little courtesy. Now Let it GOOooooo
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Post by lisa on Oct 6, 2006 14:50:06 GMT -5
Havent you seen the mantis pics? Right beside them it says explicit thats all they want. Just a little courtesy. Now Let it GOOooooo You are such a pro at cutting through the bullsh*t. Many thanks. Yes, a site like this will have sexual content. Do I want to see a random guy's penis? No. I want it in context, like Devogirl said. In the bedroom with a guy I choose, it is sexy. To stumble on a thread with cock pictures and no warning is disturbing. An EXPLICIT label will be enough to keep me away. I choose not to view. I don't care what anyone else chooses to do. Just give me the option. |
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Post by mcc2121 on Oct 6, 2006 15:11:27 GMT -5
Patel, you want to know my "beef" with you? Each and every day I get up I do my damndest to dispell stereotypes associated with disabled guys. Whether it's because people treat us like we're naive, innocent or just plain dumb, I have to work extra hard (socially and in business) to overcome those misguided beliefs. And then you come along... Not only do you reinforce the stereotype that disabled men know little about talking to the opposite sex, you (a fellow disabled guy) attempted to emasculate your brothers with crap like "jealous you can't get a hard on". My problem is that knowing you're out there, I'm gonna have to work twice as hard to create a better vision of what disabled are truly like. Oh please! It's all about selling yourself, isn't it? Well, I never did and never will try to prove myself to anyone. If they don't like what I look like, they don't have to deal with me. It's their loss, because I am damn good at what I do, and I will succeed no matter what. Same goes for women. If she isn't intelligent enough to recognize my qualities, she is not good enough to be with me. In this life, you either get on the boat while it's leaving, or you have missed it. Selling myself? Of course it's about selling myself! Michael, what kind of world do you live in that allows you to NOT prove yourself? If you're not out there pushing the envelope, challenging the status quo, you're living too safe. Disabled or not, you have to prove yourself to get a job, and then in the workplace. You have to prove yourself socially as well. No one ever takes a person at face value. Now is that doubly true when you're disabled? Absolutely! When you have a goal, and you've found that someone has prejudged you, you have a choice: A) Pack up all your toys, go home and say that the world is unfair and I'm not playing the game, or B) Change the playing field. I've always chosen B, because A only hurts me. For example, when I first started performing stand-up comedy, not one club in the entire area had an accessible stage. When I would go up to a club manager and ask for a ramp to be made, they'd lean back and snicker with a look of "fat chance". In fact, they would often give me that all too familiar "get back on the short bus, retard" stare. Now at that point I could've said, "Hey, this is b.s. None of the other comics have to deal with this, so screw it!" But who would that have hurt? Instead, I played the game. I performed many years on the floor, not under the lights, and out of the view of most of the audience. But then guess what happened Michael? After a while, club owners either realized I was good and NEEDED to be seen, or owners tired of hearing complaints from the audience that they liked my stuff, but wished they could see me. Next thing I know...ramps started appearing!! So yeah, sure, I could've been too proud and said, "This is me. Take me or leave me." But then the owners would've won. My whole point to Patel on dispelling stereotypes and changing things is that with the right attitude, paths can be paved for yourself and others to come. If some kid in a chair thinks he's some smart assed, funny guy, like I apparently do, you know what...the ramps are still there. |
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Post by mcc2121 on Oct 6, 2006 15:27:51 GMT -5
Patel, here's the $1,000,000 issue: you still think I'm talking about your cock. I guess you'll never get it.
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Post by BA on Oct 6, 2006 16:47:15 GMT -5
all your posts are sorts of sexual approaches. we've never seen anything else of you. and although we talk about our sexuality on this board, most of us are definitely not here to do some dirty talk. Oh cake, you got that one right on! Patel, I want to like you, I really do, but it would be far better if you asked for some assistance in best ways to meet women. Flashing your meat, private messaging and ongoing posts with overt "let's hook up and get it on" kind of stuff is just a plain old Turn Off, in the biggest of ways. It makes you come off as desperate and needy which perhaps you aren't! The bulk of the ladies (and men) on this board want to have intelligent dialogue. Your approach also leaves me with the feeling that you still haven't a clue what a dev really is. I feel that you think we are a bunch of sexual nympho perverts who are just waiting for any guy in a wheelchair to jump on and screw. I assure you, this is very far from true. MCC has some very astute and valid points. I did not feel in any of his posts that he was trying to "show himself off". He feels that he is out there "representing" and that when other guys in a chair do things to really undermine all those efforts, he gets pissed off. Nobody here is trying to be a "super-crip". I think we are all just trying to live the best we possibly can with what we've got, disabled or not, we all have junk and baggage. |
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