hungryquad
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 15, 2015 18:52:48 GMT -5
Welcome from America!
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hungryquad
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 14, 2015 20:00:24 GMT -5
Well I'm a c4/5 complete and I have extremely sensitive surface sensation from just above my nipples up especially my scalp ,below I have some light touch sensation on the underside of my forearms,beyond that the internal sensation feels constantly tingly especially when I attempt to move or think about the immobile areas.the highest concentration of tingling occurs in the pubic region esp when I feel aroused.feel free to pm me if any other questions come to mind emrac and I were just talking about internal sensation...at the risk of sounding really naive, I had no clue quads could feel their insides. It is okay, as you probably know no injury happened the same way and therefore every quad is different.it is also weird that I can feel some of my internal organs, for example my stomach when it is hungry,yet I do not have she says or control of the muscle in the area
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hungryquad
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 14, 2015 19:12:29 GMT -5
Well I'm a c4/5 complete and I have extremely sensitive surface sensation from just above my nipples up especially my scalp ,below I have some light touch sensation on the underside of my forearms,beyond that the internal sensation feels constantly tingly especially when I attempt to move or think about the immobile areas.the highest concentration of tingling occurs in the pubic region esp when I feel aroused.feel free to pm me if any other questions come to mind
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hungryquad
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 14, 2015 12:27:23 GMT -5
Welcome, thank you for such a powerful introduction, I hope you get what you are looking for here. More people should think like you
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 12, 2015 10:35:28 GMT -5
Is there going to be a video? LOL
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 11, 2015 21:14:59 GMT -5
I currently live in Syracuse, and I bundle up when I venture outside, and I try not to do that too much unless it's necessary.I have a pretty good power chair that can handle most hazardous conditions, but sometimes if it is really icy or snowy out I can lose traction and Control and have ended up in some pretty interesting situations over the years. Also, apparently heavy salting can ruin an engine motor
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 11, 2015 11:51:04 GMT -5
I´d try to keep them apart. But in my own experience the roles merges if the relationship grows. I´dont know if that makes any sense? In my head it does My experience too
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 14:30:21 GMT -5
Sounds to me like you are looking at a possible chance to take her out to dinner or something....how about that? All dev stuff aside...she likes you and isn't that just a great thing? Already been out. We do both like each other very much, this was more of an observation. Dev or not, I'm always open to beautiful women digging me. Who isn't tho? For real
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 14:26:04 GMT -5
(sorry, didn´t fit into the subject line)... gush over specific aspects of your disability? Actually I wanted to post a reply to James´ “Why do you like what you like?” question but by the end of my writing, I thought “ I am really interested in finding out how the other PWD on this board feel about it..”. So I figured I should just start my own thread. So here we go. A while ago, I talked to a friend of mine who is a quad and knows that I am a dev. I told him that I met this one guy who has not SCI but another disability and that I can totally see the appeal of that disability as well - although I previously only fantasized about guys with SCI. He asked to give him some examples of what I find attractive in that certain disability. When I openly told him what exactly acted as a “dev-trigger” (lol), he soon became a bit uncomfortable and in the end told me something along the lines of “ … okay, I got it. Thanks” in an attempt to make me stop talking. And it wasn’t even him or his disability that I was talking about! But he was clearly uncomfortable. How would you feel if a dev gushes over specific aspect of your disability? Maybe even aspects that you dislike? PS: I purposely left out my own interpretation of that scenario Hey, as long as a girl is obsessing over me, or even aspects of me I don't really care LOL
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 13:57:30 GMT -5
Glad to have you here, Peyton! Welcome from downstate Where down state are you from? Jc
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 12:51:29 GMT -5
As someone who requires full care my need for a hired attendant will never go away. It would be lovely to have a parter who could do my care but I'd never allow them to do it all on their own, nobody should ever have to take on that responsibility. Tinysighs you ask very great questions! Exactly
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 12:50:08 GMT -5
When seeking a partner are you looking for someone who can eliminate your need for a hired attendant? Or do you see them as exclusive roles? Not as mutually exclusive, but I may not want to rely entirely on one person. I mean, I want my Freedom sometimes, Especially if in the middle of an argument
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 12:42:09 GMT -5
It's not garlic. I lurve garlic and have been known to lay it on so thick that it burns a little. (Wards off colds and vampires, don'cha know) It's your inherent smell. The one you have at the end of the day. Or maybe aftershave/cologne. (You can totally blame my dad for that business. Evolution/biology for the inherent smell thing.) I always said that garlic/onion should be a cologne/perfume
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 12:37:11 GMT -5
For me, physical attraction is necessary but not sufficient. I continue to struggle with this topic, there's totally a guy in my life who is really nice but who I'm just not attracted to. It's past the point of just neutral, he really doesn't put any effort into his appearance at all so it's actively a turn off. Despite my mother's frequent protestations (why don't you like the nice guys) I just can't get there. Part of the trouble is, hot guys (you know who you are) don't have to be as nice, because you'll put up with more shit from a guy you're really attracted to than a guy who you're kinda in the middle about. I do think it's not so much about conventional attractiveness as it is about whatever lights your particular fire. I have totally been with guys who aren't conventionally hot but who really did it for me, I have a soft spot for the scrawny, bookish type (talk nerdy to me). I also think that if there's at least a little spark in the beginning that can grow over time, with constancy. But if there isn't anything there, in my experience, it won't suddenly appear. The argument I always hear is that attractiveness always fades over time. True to a point, our dance group got hired to perform at a 50th anniversary, and 70 years does make a great equalizer. That said, I'd like to think I'll have many years of having sex with Mr. Lucky before our golden years, and I'd like to not have to grin and bear it in the meantime. Long story short, it definitely matters, but I continue to hope that you don't have to choose looks or personality, and that you, too, MNG, will find the total package. Then again, I'm kinda famous for unreasonable expectations. SOOOOO much like!!! I hear over and over again how looks don't matter. LOOKS MATTER!!!! But the good news is... we all like different looks. I think my husband is sexy as hell. I mean... his ARMS, tho... But I also have had devs tell me they don't think he's all that attractive. *shrug* One guy on here used to get a lot of traction with the ladies... until he revealed his personality... and I never got what the big deal was. He's just not attractive in any way that I define attractive. So... to each their own. But... in order for a relationship to bloom and grow, there must be some spark of attraction from the beginning, in my humble opinion. Not everyone agrees with me, and that's fine. But when I was dating, if there was no chemistry up front, then I just didn't pursue it. Plenty of fish in the sea, even hot, disabled fish. But no matter how much I was attracted initially, if the guy wasn't ALSO loaded with the personality I like... then the thing died quick, too. I was picky. I AM picky. I am also a bitch. But I am a happily married bitch, and if it can happen to me, it can happen to you! LOL So, I guess I haven't said anything earth shattering here, but what gets repeated ALL THE TIME: BEEEE YOURSELF. If you're not traditionally good looking, at least be clean, for God's sake. If you don't have a sparkling wit, at least don't try to be something you are not. Someone is out there. I do hope so, if not then what is the point?
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hungryquad
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Post by hungryquad on Jan 10, 2015 12:19:52 GMT -5
The best of men, it's about the development of post sci therapies for soldiers during ww2 which led to sustainability post injury,it's on netflix
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