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Post by shynight on May 18, 2010 5:34:24 GMT -5
wow guys .. and gals .. thanks for the sentiments and the warm welcome.. encouraged to write/share more... as you all might know.. a para's life is a rich one.. any suggestions? OK, Shynight you asked. You say that a para's life is a rich one - would you say being a para has enriched your life and if so, in what way? I assume you weren't born a para. If you don't want to answer that's cool... nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? Actually .. I was born a para.. Accident during birth.. And in what ways? i know it sounds lame, but in almost everything.. examples: patience .. all the disables are going "Duh!" :-P Appreciation of finer things.. things that do matter.. in people specially.. Acceptance .. once u know .. this is ur fate.. u accept urself.. a lot of ABs dont have even THAT.. Charisma.. although i am shy to strangers.. i find that people can easily approach me .. THANK GOD! else i would have lived my life as a hermit.. Ambition.. no one we need to impress.. or the opposite.. must prove something.. I can do it all .. mine is the latter unfortunately.. so we 'paras' pull up our sleeves and show u what we got.. I could go on.. but for some reason i think my list will only get more and more lame.. I can add one more thing though for you Doe .. its not a matter of being able to do something or not to.. its a matter of the HOW.. when u constantly are thinking how to live ur day to day life.. obstacle-free.. it makes ur brain work.. i am not claiming wheelies are smarter than anyone .. but i personally can say i'm better well-read.. also because of it ;-) |
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Post by dolly on May 22, 2010 10:20:20 GMT -5
welcome!  thanks for your willingness to understand what we are all about and for your thoughtful and intelligent entrance to the board. looking forward to hearing more from you. |
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Post by shynight on May 22, 2010 11:54:41 GMT -5
welcome! thanks for your willingness to understand what we are all about and for your thoughtful and intelligent entrance to the board. looking forward to hearing more from you. Comments like these only motivate to write more.. knowing there are people reading and understanding.. |
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Post by ranae on May 22, 2010 19:04:05 GMT -5
It is true. Some women that are attracted to disabled men have a range of feelings and sensations that I have tried to explain countless times with no success. I sometimes get so wrapped up in just the mere thought of having a quad or a para be interested in me that I do not think clearly. I have yet to find a disabled man that was actually attracted to me. I don't mean just physically....I mean someone that is truly interested in me. I have practically been deduced to begging and still no luck. Sometimes I truly wish I did not have this attraction at all. I have tried to build a relationship with someone but he eventually just went away. No real explanation, just stopped talking to me. I am not the most beautiful person in the world....but I am sexy and I do know exactly what I want. I have had zero response for the long term and do not expect to hear from him ever again.
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Post by paraxdreamer on Jul 5, 2010 20:21:39 GMT -5
wow that is an amazing introduction! that certianly did make me smile i love how positive you are and how amazing you explained yourself! you sound like youd be an amazing poet! welcome and i look forward to reading your other posts |
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Post by tuna on Feb 27, 2011 17:56:16 GMT -5
@ shynight:
cute, insightful, lives-in-my-country, para...
are you real?
yum!
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Post by shynightgirl on Mar 4, 2011 0:27:19 GMT -5
Yes he's real, yes he's yum, and until I'm told otherwise....mine. You do have good taste though.
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Post by lavly on Mar 4, 2011 0:57:57 GMT -5
Yes he's real, yes he's yum, and until I'm told otherwise....mine. You do have good taste though. wb to pd  way happy for you both |
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Post by shynightgirl on Mar 4, 2011 1:10:48 GMT -5
Thank you Lavly....I hope that didn't sound rude....did it? A girl must stake her claim sometimes...would you agree?
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Post by lavly on Mar 4, 2011 7:13:58 GMT -5
Thank you Lavly....I hope that didn't sound rude....did it? A girl must stake her claim sometimes...would you agree? your far from rude hun |
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Post by tuna on Mar 4, 2011 9:22:24 GMT -5
Yes he's real, yes he's yum, and until I'm told otherwise....mine. You do have good taste though. Woah woah woah! he's ALL your's girl. Feel free to stake your claim anywhere on his person! Best of luck to you |
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Post by lavly on Mar 4, 2011 11:10:01 GMT -5
i like that "Feel free to stake your claim anywhere on his person" nice  |
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Post by tuna on Mar 4, 2011 12:02:27 GMT -5
Danke! ~bows~ er, Lavly, you do like a show, dont you?  |
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Post by lavly on Mar 4, 2011 12:52:22 GMT -5
er, Lavly, you do like a show, dont you? lol all about it got to love a good show ! |
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Post by tuna on Mar 4, 2011 16:36:15 GMT -5
No kidding, I just watched a bunch of brawny violent types blasting the life out of each other for half hour today on campus..
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way happy for you both 
