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Post by devogirl on May 30, 2024 7:43:08 GMT -5
Lately I've been feeling really annoyed with myself for not continuing a conversation with this cute blind guy who came up to me to ask for directions. It happened a year ago and I'm still thinking about him! I was so flustered that I even did the classic annoying thing of just staying quiet after the last exchange -- I saw him hesitate, presumably unsure if the convo was over -- and then he also kinda awkwardly bowed out. Ii've read up on enough blindness etiquette to know that was the wrong thing to do, but in the moment I panicked and didn't want to come off as over eager. Oh no! 😠Next time just keep talking.
I ran into a young blind guy a few months ago. He was asking random people for directions and everyone was ignoring him, so I walked up to him and asked if he needed help. It's an area I know well but when he said where he was going somehow there was some miscommunication between us and I couldn't give him the direction he wanted. He walked off to go ask someone else. He was much younger and I'm married, so I was not trying to strike up a conversation with him, but I felt like I failed as a dev for not being able to help him out.
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Post by melaney23 on May 31, 2024 8:04:14 GMT -5
Oh no! 😠Next time just keep talking.
I ran into a young blind guy a few months ago. He was asking random people for directions and everyone was ignoring him, so I walked up to him and asked if he needed help. It's an area I know well but when he said where he was going somehow there was some miscommunication between us and I couldn't give him the direction he wanted. He walked off to go ask someone else. He was much younger and I'm married, so I was not trying to strike up a conversation with him, but I felt like I failed as a dev for not being able to help him out.
Ah, thanks for this! It's comforting to know that even a seasoned dev like you can't always handle it perfectly
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Post by Inkdevil on Jun 3, 2024 13:57:36 GMT -5
Dev struggle? Not feeling like a dev at all. Been on a dev low for so long, I can’t even remember what the high was like. I don’t even want to be high again. A nice middle ground would do. I feel…nothing.
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Post by blueskye101 on Jun 24, 2024 19:05:05 GMT -5
Dev struggle? Not feeling like a dev at all. Been on a dev low for so long, I can’t even remember what the high was like. I don’t even want to be high again. A nice middle ground would do. I feel…nothing. Do you miss it?
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Post by ana on Jul 6, 2024 9:26:47 GMT -5
Dev struggle? Not feeling like a dev at all. Been on a dev low for so long, I can’t even remember what the high was like. I don’t even want to be high again. A nice middle ground would do. I feel…nothing. since i met my soul mate my dev is practically gone, but i had a relapse during the last month, just afer a big fight we had. i used to need my dev dreams to enjoy sex with previous partners, however with him i am satisfied, even thought i was "cured", because its been a year and a half without the dev arousal.
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Post by em on Aug 15, 2024 9:07:35 GMT -5
I got back from a holiday and I have to get back to work, which involves a lot of writing and thinking (and little interaction/working with people because everyone else is on holiday too). Somehow this kind of situation always triggers a dev high, and I wish I could be writing stories instead of boring work stuff! I did finish a fanfiction yesterday (I only planned to post two chapters because other, longer stories I started years ago never got finished) - so I'm proud of that and I guess I'll have to take that as a win. But I'm struggling to focus on work and I just keep googling things to read or going through my old files to find some stories I could continue with....
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Post by kat on Aug 20, 2024 3:19:59 GMT -5
![](https://i.imgur.com/snoyXAy.jpeg) current mood
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