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Post by IcarusFellOnce on Dec 30, 2019 0:01:33 GMT -5
Okay, we get it IcarusFellOnce you're taken. Maybe you could invite your fiance Kate over here so she can also talk about how irrestistible you are. I think everyone should now talk about how sexy and hot their partners/wives/husbands are... *sideways look* Happy Holidays Danni.. goodwill toward each other and peace on earth and all that. There are a lot of awesome humans out there.. you should try focusing on them sometime. All the unanswered messages that I have NOT written back to you obviously aren't a clue.. and your sarcastic comments are just more of the same. Get a clue.. Not interested in chatting with you. You have no right to demand to know why people are here and what brings them here.. NOR do you have a right to curate this place. Leave people alone and take a hint. Here to message and chat with the people I want.... Beyond that.. it's really none of your business... so quit with the harassment, please.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2019 0:04:18 GMT -5
I am not harassing you, just making a comment
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Post by Deleted on Dec 30, 2019 0:11:50 GMT -5
Okay, we get it IcarusFellOnce you're taken. Maybe you could invite your fiance Kate over here so she can also talk about how irrestistible you are. I think everyone should now talk about how sexy and hot their partners/wives/husbands are... *sideways look* Happy Holidays Danni.. goodwill toward each other and peace on earth and all that. There are a lot of awesome humans out there.. please. There are lots of awesome and sincere humans out there and I love them. I have a problem with the one's that pretend to be awesome or like to rub their awesomeness into other awesome and sincere human's faces.
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Post by IcarusFellOnce on Dec 30, 2019 0:13:33 GMT -5
*Thumbs up* As you say. Thanks for the clarification.
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Post by pam on Dec 30, 2019 11:19:30 GMT -5
Okay, we get it IcarusFellOnce you're taken. Maybe you could invite your fiance Kate over here so she can also talk about how irrestistible you are. I think everyone should now talk about how sexy and hot their partners/wives/husbands are... There`s something to learn from that encounter, and I`m parroting myself with this, but growing some balls is mandatory for things like this to happen; She had some. No neon lights or secret handshakes needed. It comes with a risk of being rejected, judged, whatever, but that`s how that shit works. yes, it requires some bravery. I'm not sure if I could be that bold, except maybe if I had been drinking lol. I wonder if me being a dev would make that big of a difference in them being attracted to me. I would think looks and personality would be more important. I wonder if I would get extra points for being a dev even though I'm not beautiful 🤪
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Post by IcarusFellOnce on Dec 30, 2019 13:32:25 GMT -5
There`s something to learn from that encounter, and I`m parroting myself with this, but growing some balls is mandatory for things like this to happen; She had some. No neon lights or secret handshakes needed. It comes with a risk of being rejected, judged, whatever, but that`s how that shit works. yes, it requires some bravery. I'm not sure if I could be that bold, except maybe if I had been drinking lol. I wonder if me being a dev would make that big of a difference in them being attracted to me. I would think looks and personality would be more important. I wonder if I would get extra points for being a dev even though I'm not beautiful 🤪 I'm not going to tell you how to feel about yourself. But I don't like it when people disparage their own beauty. Every human has something and/or somethings that are physically attractive about them. You're not an exception. I am SURE there is a lot physically attractive about you that you are not giving yourself credit for. Agreed... it did require bravery. I truly appreciated, respected, and like how much courage it took to start offering hints and then outright directly answering my question. I suspect most devs (know I need to be careful here.. because I am limited in my knowledge.. maybe the group can chime in here)... BUT I suspect most devs that are insecure and/or are afraid of admitting being a dev has more to do with the negative view, stereotypes, and negative baggage that have been tied to that word. Places like this... are places where that narrative can be changed for lots of reason. One of the MANY reasons I'm glad this board exists... despite some of the heated debates and disagreements that pop up from time to time. If I liked who the person was... AND they happened to be a dev.. I would look at that as the cherry on top of an already great looking Sunday.
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Post by cilantro on Dec 30, 2019 13:40:25 GMT -5
How did you know she was? Did she flirt with you? Did she tell you how attractive you were? It must have been interesting. Started off like it was going that way... and then she started discussing how one of her most impactful boyfriends she's ever had was a wheelchair user.... then she kind of coyly or shyly brought up the fact that because of him she's been attracted to guys in chairs. Then I started poking down that path of questions until I outright asked her.. would you call yourself a dev then? To which she answered.. yeah that's the right word for it. Talked about how my fiancé is the only woman I've really let my guard down with when it comes to my legs.. we had a moment recently that reaffirmed that. She talked about hers... so in mentioning Kate and how amazing she is.. etc.. etc.. she was really respectful about it after that. Told her I would throw some names her way of PWD's here in CO that I'm friends with and acquainted with. There really is an unusually high number of bad ass paras and quads here.. although a lot of them are starting to pair off.. meh. But it was a unique encounter. She was extremely attractive. Don't think that's disrespectful to your partner to recognize the aesthetic beauty in another person.. I mean no one is sexy like Kate is.. but there are plenty of beautiful people out there. It’s really nice that you thought to hook her up with some people if the possibility comes up. I feel like people used to do this way more (my parents met through mutual friends, but my friends aren’t very good about it). Anyway I would love a friends of friends thread... if anyone knows anyone in the nyc area in their 20s feel free to HMU and I’ll pass them my card
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Post by mike on Dec 30, 2019 14:12:02 GMT -5
pam, Being a dev gives you at least 100 bonus points.
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Post by linda on Dec 30, 2019 15:24:04 GMT -5
How did you know she was? Did she flirt with you? Did she tell you how attractive you were? It must have been interesting. Started off like it was going that way... and then she started discussing how one of her most impactful boyfriends she's ever had was a wheelchair user.... then she kind of coyly or shyly brought up the fact that because of him she's been attracted to guys in chairs. Then I started poking down that path of questions until I outright asked her.. would you call yourself a dev then? To which she answered.. yeah that's the right word for it. Talked about how my fiancé is the only woman I've really let my guard down with when it comes to my legs.. we had a moment recently that reaffirmed that. She talked about hers... so in mentioning Kate and how amazing she is.. etc.. etc.. she was really respectful about it after that. Told her I would throw some names her way of PWD's here in CO that I'm friends with and acquainted with. There really is an unusually high number of bad ass paras and quads here.. although a lot of them are starting to pair off.. meh. But it was a unique encounter. She was extremely attractive. Don't think that's disrespectful to your partner to recognize the aesthetic beauty in another person.. I mean no one is sexy like Kate is.. but there are plenty of beautiful people out there. It’s not at all disrespectful to recognize the aesthetic beauty in another person. I feel like even mixing these two, simply acknowledging the beauty of another person with everything that defines your love towards the one person you love, kind of does not pay respect to the deepness and uniqueness that true love is, apart from just good looks. I remember the pictures you had shared from before IcarusFellOnce. Kate is absolutely gorgeous. I wish you the best of luck! Last New Year as an unmarried man. Very exciting! 😀
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Post by pam on Dec 30, 2019 18:00:52 GMT -5
pam, Being a dev gives you at least 100 bonus points. That's good to know! I feel like I have a definite advantage😁
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Post by lizzy on Dec 30, 2019 19:50:51 GMT -5
Plus, the large neon sign above my head that says "Dev" with an arrow pointing to me !! I feel that the sign is the biggest give away !! I feel like there should be some dev brand recognition like a logo or something while out in the "wild." That way if I'm out pushing my cart full of baby food I can say hello if I spot the dev crest across the chest...say that three times. No crest needed here..... say that three times.
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Post by indelible on Dec 31, 2019 0:45:31 GMT -5
It's funny how we are discussing the physics of wheelchair pressure and weight on toes, sandals or not...I will go buy a pair of steel toe boots...I think it may look hot with a short skirt...lol Yes!! How short? 😶
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